鍾意和愛的分別

This is from an email sent from my friend.
今天去彌撒的時候，神父在講道的時候解釋了鍾意和愛的分別。神父說最大的分別在於以誰為中心，以自己為中心的是為鍾意，以對方為中心的是為愛。就如你只會鍾意咖啡、鍾意雪糕，因為這些東西令你快樂，滿足你的慾望。但若你愛一樣東西，你會忘記自己，以對方為中心，一切都為對方著想，令對方幸福快樂。請想清楚你對你的伴侶的是愛還是鍾意，若你是因為對方令你快樂而把對方留在身邊，沒有想到對方是否快樂，這只是鍾意。若你為了對方願意犧牲自己，為令對方快樂，這才是愛。如果幸運遇上一個同時相愛的人，真的可以完全忘掉自己，因為對方會愛你如己，當然你也必需愛他如己。但真的幸運地遇上這麼一個人的，少之又少，比中六合彩的機會還少。當你遇上這人的時候一定要好好珍惜，還沒遇到的要努力喔。常存盼望，心存感激，定必找到你的真命天子。

See it from the good side.

Life changed so much since April, job, car, and life.
I currently work two jobs, I am a software engineer in HP (Roseville Campus) during the day and work telecommute for a small company call MortgageDocs at night.
Thanks for the busy schedule I am no longer have what you call “life” anymore. I don't even has time for movie, photography, or dating. The good side is I can pay off a new car in a year and have money to do my yard and marry (in some day).
Last month I traded in my lovely Acura MDX and get a new Sicon Xb. I love the Xb, it is a perfect commute car and I don’t have to worry about mileages and gas money as much as the past. I am not use to drive an economy car, but in this stage of life “nice” has a totally different meaning now.
My darkest nightmare had finally come in a peaceful Monday afternoon.
I was so miserable and the emotions were mix that I had never felt before.
The initial shock was devastating and it felt like I lost a love one.
After a long smoke break, all those negative thoughts changed to positive.
I realize what I did two months ago was right and that is what I wanted all along so I can have my life back.
I am free, and finally I can close the chapter and start a new chapter freely.
I finally escape the prison of the past.
I guess you guys won't see any sad photography from me now.